Matthew 3:13-17
My mother had a favorite benediction she would give whenever I left the house.
"Remember who you are!"
Sometimes it was given as, "Don't you forget who you are!"
One day I was feeling a bit full of myself and turned to her and said, "Aw Mom, how could I forget a name like Maynard Pittendreigh."
Of course, she was not concerned that I would forget my name. She was concerned that alone on a date, or in the midst of other young boys, I might forget my values.
Remember who you are!
"Remember who you are!"
Sometimes it was given as, "Don't you forget who you are!"
One day I was feeling a bit full of myself and turned to her and said, "Aw Mom, how could I forget a name like Maynard Pittendreigh."
Of course, she was not concerned that I would forget my name. She was concerned that alone on a date, or in the midst of other young boys, I might forget my values.
Remember who you are!
We need to remember our
baptism.
How do we do that when so
many of us were baptized as infants.
I don’t remember the day of
my birth.
I don’t remember the day my
parents took me home from the hospital.
I don’t remember the first
time I felt love for my mother and father.
I was too young. I was an infant!
Most of us don’t remember our
baptism. We were too young. We were babies.
And that is not a bad thing –
that we were baptized as babies. That
was the tradition of the church for 1,500 years. Until relatively recently, no one in
Christianity ever questioned baptizing babies.
No one waited until a person was a teenager to baptize. They baptized quickly.
Now some of us, because we do not physically remember our
baptism, want to be rebaptized.
Can’t be
done.
Not in the
Presbyterian Church.
In Ephesians we
are taught, “there is ONE baptism, one Lord, one faith, one baptism.”
But from time
to time I encounter people who say they want to be rebaptized. They have turned their life around and their
faith has been renewed and they want to be rebaptized.
No.
Can’t do it.
But we can
remember our baptism and we can RENEW our baptism vows.
Have you ever
wondered why baptize infants?
One obvious reason is
because God loves children.
You don’t have to be an
old man, a college graduate, an accomplished musician, a wise person, or good
person. You don’t have to prove your
worth at all. God loves us freely –
whether we deserve it or not makes no difference.
I remember the first time
I met my son. He was brand new in the
world and I fell in love with him instantly.
This was before he uttered those famous words, “Daddy.” This was before he created any of those
artistic masterpieces that hung on our refrigerator door. This was before his first report card, his
first homerun, his graduation from high school or his enlistment in the Air
Force. It was even before his first
diaper change. I loved my son instantly
and freely. He didn’t have to earn my
love, or work for my love, or deserve my love.
And that is the way God
loves us.
We don’t have to work for
his love, earn his love, or wait for his love.
The baptism of infants is
a powerful demonstration that God’s love is freely given.
Some people don’t believe in infant
baptism because they don’t believe children need to be baptized, which is a
symbolic washing away of sins. They say
children are innocent. People who say
this, and who claim that children are innocent, obviously have never had
children.
There is no creature more
self-centered than a baby. They scream
when they are hungry, they demand attention, they are the center of the
universe. And we love them for that.
Of course, we get tired of that when
they are teenagers and we realize they are still self-centered, still scream
when they are hungry, and still think they are the center of the universe.
We need to baptize infants because
they need to be symbolically washed from sin as much as any of us.
Human sinfulness is not something
that comes to us between the time we learn to walk and the time we learn to
drive a car. It is with us from the
beginning. It is our nature.
This is taught
to us in the Bible. In the Old Testament
Psalm, Psalm 51 verse 5, the writer says, “Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful
from the time my mother conceived me.”
(Note: Genesis 8:21, Psalm 58,
Romans 5:18)
In his New Testament letter to the
Romans, Paul said, “all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” (Rom 3:23-24)
Notice that is says everyone. It
doesn’t exclude children. It doesn't say that they're exempt until they reach
an age of accountability. Everyone stands condemned.
Everyone is in need of God’s love and
salvation, even children.
What some parents fear when they
present an infant for baptism is that it will never mean anything to the
child. And that would be a terrible
thing.
As a pastor I share that fear. When I take a baby in my arms and baptize the
baby, I want it to mean something to that child as he or she grows up. But let me tell you this – I have the same
fear when I baptize an adult. I
sometimes baptize an adult and wonder, are you doing this because your wife
made you do this? Are you doing this as
a teenager because NOW your parents are putting pressure on you?
Baptism needs to mean something to us
– whether we remember it with our minds or not, we need to remember it with our
souls.
Remember your baptism and be
grateful!
Those of you who have children who
are grown may understand what I am about to say.
When your child is a baby, you
immediately love that baby and you feel that the baby loves you.
As a toddler, the child adores you.
As a growing child, the child depends
on you.
As a teenager you are now tolerated –
if you are lucky. There is a drifting
away. The teenager regards you with
suspicion and may even be openly hostile to you.
Then somewhere along the way, that rebellious
teenager comes back around. There is
open love between the adult child and the aging parent.
At no time was it necessary for the
parent and child to go to the court system so that the child could be adopted
legally because somewhere along the way the adult child began to realize that
being part of the family meant something.
The child was always a part of the family, even when going through those
rebellious teenage years.
So it is spiritually, the child who
is baptized and nurtured in the church, who drifts away and then returns, does
not need to be rebaptized. The child was
always part of God’s family.
You just need to remember the baptism
and be grateful.
You don’t need to be rebaptized –
that’s not necessary. You just need to
remember who you are.
Martin Luther would sometimes feel
the presence of Satan. He would feel the
tug of temptation. And he would deal
with this by saying, sometimes yelling – “I am baptized.”
My friends – you have been baptized
before today. But today you had an
opportunity to renew that baptism publically.
And every day you renew your baptism by simply remembering.
When you go out into the world –
remember who you are. You are a child of
God.
Copyright 2014, Dr. Maynard
Pittendreigh
All rights reserved.