When I was in high school, we lived in a very small town. It was a mill town where there was only one mill -- a textile mill, and my father was the General Manager of that mill. Like all Southern Mill Towns, the General Manager lived in a home provided by the company. It was, like all General Manager homes, the largest home in town. It was on a hill and overlooked the rest of the community. Like all General Managers of small town mills, my father was watched and observed and talked about. Sometimes, we had a lot of fun with some of the gossip that we heard about my father.
The mill owned everything in town, including the community recreation center. One day, they were doing some repair work there, and the workers found a time capsule in the cornerstone. You know what I mean, a box imbedded in the concrete and bricks. It contained things like a program from the 4th of July picnic, a newspaper, photographs, an annual from the local high school. Nothing of value, just things that people wanted to preserve for the future generations to find.
Well, word got out that there was a bar of gold in that time capsule. My father displayed the contents of that time capsule in the office. And everyone wanted to go and see it. Lo and behold, no one saw any bar of gold there. So word got out that my father had stolen the bar of gold.
A few days later, my father fell and injured his ankle. It was hard for him to get around on crutches, so he set up office at the house. People noticed he didn't go to work at the office, so word got around, that my father had been fired, because he had stolen that bar of gold.
This all happened around Christmas time, and one evening, my mother was cleaning up from the Christmas decorations and tried to burn some boxes in the fire place. She didn't realize these boxes had been treated in some way, and they wouldn't just burn up like most paper. Instead, they burned very slowly. Bits and pieces of the boxes went up the fire place and through the chimney and into the sky above the house. From the outside, people could see all of these little bits of glowing material rising from the fireplace. Word got around that my mother was melting down the bar of gold into smaller pieces so she could sneak it out of town.
Well, one of those burning embers fell on one of the canvas awnings over a window. The awning caught on fire, and as people drove by, they noticed my father and me trying to put out the fire. Word got around that my mother was so mad at the company for firing my father for stealing the gold, that she had a nervous breakdown and tried to burn down the house.
Small towns have reputations for that sort of gossiping, but don't be fooled. Even in the largest cities we are every bit as tempted and enticed to gossip as any resident of even the smallest town.
The example I've shared this morning is entertaining. It did no harm. In fact, the more the rumors like that grow, the sillier they get. And the sillier they get, the more we are able to laugh it off. The fact that the whole town thought my father had stolen the company gold never jeopardized his job in the company. If anything, it made him a more intriguing individual in the eyes of the mill workers.
In the Ten Commandments, we are told very clearly, "Thou shalt not bear false witness." Don't be confused by the legal language here. The concern is not simply courtroom moments. Most of us have never served as a witness in a court of law. I haven't. But most of us have -- and indeed probably ALL of us have -- been guilty of bearing false witness.
The Internet has given fuel for bearing false witness.
Every few days I see an email or a meme online showing a picture of Donald Trump. He is quoted as saying “If I were to run, I'd run as a Republican. They're the dumbest group of voters in the country. They believe anything on Fox News. I could lie and they'd still eat it up. I bet my numbers would be terrific.” There is even a reference to People Magazine, with a 1998 date.
But it is not true. Look at the issues of People Magazine for that entire year and there is no reference to that quotation. That quotation mentions Fox News, and while it did exist in 1998, it was very new and was a very small market that few people had started watching.
And yet every time we post that or forward that email, we are bearing false witness. We are perpetuating a lie.
And just to be sure that there is equal time in this sermon, the other political party is just as bad. For years there has been a photo circulating of President Obama putting his LEFT hand over his heart during the pledge of allegiance, as if to say that he purposefully disrespected the American flag. But look in the background of that photo and there is a US Marine, and all the decorations on his uniform are on the wrong side – someone simply took a photo, reversed it, and circulated a lie about the President.
Bearing false witness.
We bear false witness against our politicians, our teachers, our co workers, our boss, our pastor, our barber, all of our neighbors.
One study has suggested that we are lied to about 200 times each day.
Most people lie to others once or twice a day and deceive about 30 people per week.
The average is 7 times per hour if you count all the times people lie to themselves.
Michael Lewis in his book, Lying and Deception in Everyday Life, states that, by the age of 3, two-thirds of American kids have learned to lie. By age 7, about 98% lie.
In the Ten Commandments, we are told very clearly, "Thou shalt not bear false witness."
This is serious stuff – it is not always innocent or comical. It is telling a lie about someone, and we are putting a person’s reputation and integrity on the line.
In a courtroom, a witness stands before the court, places one hand on a Bible and raises the other hand, and dramatically says something like, "I swear to tell the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help me God." From that moment on, the witness is "under oath."
The Christian lives his or her entire life "under oath." The expectation is that when we talk about others, we speak only the truth. James, in his New Testament letter, quoted Jesus when he said (in James 5:12), "Above all, my brothers, do not swear-- not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. Let your "Yes" be yes, and your "No," no, or you will be condemned."
Mark Twain is reported to have said, "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes." Now that we live in an age of technology, the lies move faster and further than ever before.
We have a responsibility to speak the truth, especially when we speak about someone else.
, was a town not too far from
here. It was made infamous in the 1920s
when a white woman was beaten up by a man with whom she was having an affair. Wanting
to come up with some story that explained her bruised face but hid the truth,
she made the claim that a black man attacked her. For two or three days, gangs of white
vigilantes moved through the community beating and killing black residents in
search of the one who is guilty. Before
long, houses had been burned. A church
had been destroyed. Families were split
up. Lives had been forever changed, and
some had been lost. All because of one
person who failed in obedience to the commandment, "Thou shalt not bear
false witness." Florida
She lied – and worse, she lied about someone else.
There is no Rosewood Florida any longer.
As children, we frequently sang out a chant in response to someone calling us a name. "Sticks and stones my break my bones, but your words will never hurt me." We knew then, and we know now, the words of others may not break our bones but they hurt us deeply.
In Proverbs, there is a list of things that God hates. That is an interesting word to use in connection with God. God is a God of love, and it is difficult to think of Him as capable of hating, but the Word of God says in Proverbs 6:16-19,
There are six things the LORD hates,
seven that are detestable to him:
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,
a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,
(AND) a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up dissension among others.
So when we see some interesting tidbit about a politician we don’t like, we had better verify the truth before sharing it with others.
When we hear gossip about other people, we’d better be sure we speak the truth when we tell others.
When we are angry and want to hurt others, we’d best not yield to the temptation to hurt the other person’s reputation.
We are called to be a people of love, and we are called to be a people who protect the reputation of others.
And now unto God the Father,
God the Son,
And God the Holy Spirit be ascribed all might, power, dominion and glory, today and forever, Amen.
Dr. W. Maynard Pittendreigh
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